Couples & Relationship Counselling

Are you feeling distant from your partner, caught in repeating patterns, or longing for more emotional closeness, understanding, and connection?

Relationships can be one of life’s deepest sources of joy and sometimes one of its greatest sources of pain. When communication breaks down, intimacy fades, or unresolved wounds resurface, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed, discouraged, or unsure how to move forward together.

You may be:

  • feeling unheard, misunderstood, or disconnected
  • stuck in the same arguments or reactive cycles again and again
  • navigating betrayal or broken trust
  • struggling with intimacy, sexuality, or mismatched needs
  • adapting to major life transitions that affect the relationship
  • longing to feel close, supported, and connected again

When these challenges arise, even strong relationships can feel strained. Couples and relationship counselling offers a supportive, grounded, and confidential space to gently explore what’s happening beneath the surface and move forward with greater clarity, compassion, and understanding.

I welcome diverse identities, sexual expressions, and relational styles, including LGBTQIA+ couples, polyamorous relationships, and kink-aware dynamics. I strive to offer therapeutic care that is inclusive, culturally sensitive, and grounded in respect for each person’s lived experience.

Approach

I offer a calm, safe, and non-judgmental space where you and your partner can feel heard, respected, and supported throughout your relational process.

Together, we explore the patterns, responses, and dynamics that influence your relationship, including:

  • Unresolved relational wounds, the impacts of trauma, and broken trust
  • Conflict patterns, communication breakdowns, and resentment
  • Intimacy challenges, emotional distance or differences in desire
  • Attachment styles, nervous-system responses, and unmet relational needs

My approach is client-centred, collaborative, and responsive to the unique needs of your relationship. I draw from lived experience and a range of therapeutic and relational modalities, including:

  • The Gottman Method
  • Attachment theory
  • Somatic therapy and co-regulation skills
  • Authentic Relating and effective communication tools
  • Parts Work / IFS-informed relational processes
  • Conflict resolution & repair strategies
  • Mindfulness and Tantra-informed relational practices
  • Nervous-system regulation & Polyvagal principles
  • Relational skill-building and connection practices

 

How my background supports this work

I have been working in the relational field since 2014 and offering couples coaching since 2017, supporting people in strengthening communication, deepening intimacy, and building meaningful connection. These years of experience have given me a grounded understanding of the complexities of love, intimacy, and partnership.

In addition to my counselling training, I have been facilitating Tantra, conscious relating, and relational workshops for over 20 years. This background strengthens my ability to support emotional attunement, embodied connection, and deeper relational awareness.

Any Tantra-informed or sexuality-related psycho-education I offer is always provided within a professional, ethical, and strictly non-touch therapeutic framework.

Areas of focus

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Life Transitions & Stressors

Support through major life changes such as parenthood, career shifts, relocation, health challenges, empty nesting, or separation, helping you navigate transitions with clarity and resilience.

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Nervous System Regulation & Attachment Styles

Explore how attachment patterns, stress responses, and unmet needs shape your relationship. Learn skills for greater attunement and nervous-system regulation to support safety and secure attachment.

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Communication & Conflict

Learn to communicate more clearly, reduce reactivity, and move through conflict with greater care, understanding, and repair, so disagreements no longer erode connection.

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Open & Non-Traditional Relationships

Affirming support for consensual non-monogamous and diverse relationship structures, with a focus on communication, boundaries, emotional clarity, and respect for all involved.

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Betrayal & Broken Trust

Compassionate support for navigating betrayal, breaches of trust, or relational wounds. Create greater clarity, emotional safety, and understanding at a pace that honours everyone involved.

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Intimacy & Sexuality

Support for sexual concerns, differences in desire, or intimacy blocks. Explore ways to deepen emotional and physical connection in a safe, respectful, and attuned way.

What you can gain

Couples and relationship counselling can help you:

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Learn to communicate more effectively, so you feel seen, heard, and understood.

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Transform conflict and reduce reactivity, strengthening your ability to repair and return to connection.

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Deepen intimacy and reawaken connection, addressing feelings of disconnection, sexual concerns, or unmet needs

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Rebuild trust and emotional safety, after hurt, betrayal, or infidelity.

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Navigate major life transitions together with clarity, resilience, and mutual support.

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Address relational blind spots, breaking limiting patterns and creating greater alignment.

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Develop greater understanding of each other’s needs, vulnerabilities, and longings.

Invest in your relationship

Couples Counselling is an investment in your relational health and wellness.

These sessions provide a safe, confidential space to deepen self-understanding, strengthen emotional resilience, and build practical skills for navigating relational challenges. All sessions are conducted online in the comfort of your home.

Couples Counselling Investment

55 minute session – $150 + GST
85 minute session – $225 + GST

Payment Options

Payment is due before your session and can be made via:

  • Etransfer
  • or Visa

To e-transfer, please send the session fee + 5% GST to:
info (at) luminousconnection.com

Visa payments can be made via the jane platform.

Are the sessions online or in person?

Sessions are conducted online. Online therapy can be just as beneficial and effective as in-person therapy, allowing you to receive professional help from the comfort of your own home or another private environment.

How do I start with counselling?

If this is your first time coming to counselling, I recommend starting with a Free 20 minute Meet & Greet consultation. This session allows us to determine if we’re a good fit for working together. You’ll have the opportunity to ask questions about the counselling process, what to expect, and who I am as a therapist, as well as any other inquiries you may have. It also provides me with a chance to learn more about you and what brings you to counselling. After the consultation, we can schedule your first session.

How often shall I come to counselling and how long will it take?

For optimal results, it is generally recommended to attend counseling sessions every 1-2 weeks. As you make progress and gain stability in addressing your concerns, you can adjust the frequency of sessions as needed.

Since everyone’s needs are different, it’s challenging to determine an exact timeline for how long you will need counselling. Generally, most individual clients begin to feel better and notice changes after six to eight sessions.

Are the sessions confidential?

At Luminous Connection, your privacy is treated with the utmost care. Information shared in our sessions is kept confidential in accordance with professional, ethical, and legal standards. This includes information shared verbally, electronically, or in writing.

Confidentiality continues after our professional relationship ends. Clinical records are securely stored and retained in accordance with regulatory and legal requirements in British Columbia, after which they are securely destroyed.

Information related to counselling services is confidential except in the following circumstances:

  • Immediate Risk: If there is an immediate risk to your life or safety, or to another person’s life or safety, I am legally and ethically required to take reasonable steps to ensure safety, which may include sharing relevant information.
  • Mandatory Reporting: I am legally required to report suspected abuse or neglect of a child, elderly person, or vulnerable adult.
  • Legal requirement: If records are subpoenaed or otherwise required by a court of law, I may be required to release information or provide testimony.
  • Written consent: You provide written permission to share your information with designated individuals or professionals.
  • Supervision or Peer Consultation: To support ethical practice and professional development, I may consult with a qualified supervisor or professional peer. Identifying information is not shared, and confidentiality is maintained.
  • Record Keeping: I maintain brief clinical notes from our sessions. These records are stored securely and used solely for therapeutic and legal purposes.

If you have any concerns or questions about confidentiality, please feel free to discuss them with me.

What is your cancellation, rescheduling and missed appointment policy?

At Luminous Connection Counselling, we are committed to providing high-quality care and ensuring that all clients receive the support they need. To maintain this standard, we have established the following policies regarding cancellations, rescheduling, and missed appointments:

Cancellation and Rescheduling:

  • 24-Hour Notice: Please provide at least 24 hours’ notice if you need to cancel or reschedule your appointment.
  • Late Cancellations: Cancellations made with less than 24 hours’ notice will incur a fee of 50% of the session cost.
  • Rescheduling: You can reschedule your appointment at no charge if you notify us at least 24 hours in advance.

Missed Appointments:

  • No-Show Fee: If you miss an appointment without prior notice, the full session fee will apply.
  • Repeated No-Shows: Multiple missed appointments may lead to a review of your treatment plan and could impact your future scheduling.

Emergency Exceptions:

We understand that emergencies can arise. If an emergency prevents you from attending your session, please contact us as soon as possible. Exceptions to the above policies may be considered on a case-by-case basis.

We appreciate your cooperation in helping us provide the best possible care. If you have any questions about these policies, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Can i get reimbursement for counselling with my health insurance?

I am a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor (Candidate) (RTCc) with the Association of Cooperative Counselling Therapists of Canada (ACCT), working toward full RTC designation.

Many clients are able to receive reimbursement for sessions through their extended health benefits. Coverage depends on your individual insurance plan and whether Registered Therapeutic Counsellors (including candidates) are included.

Some providers that have offered coverage for RTCs include::

  • Canada Life
  • Manulife
  • Sun Life
  • Green Shield
  • Pacific Blue Cross
  • Desjardins
  • Equitable Life
  • ClaimSecure
  • TELUS Health
  • Homewood Health
  • ComPsych
  • Aspiria

Because every plan is different, I recommend checking directly with your provider and asking:

  • Does my plan cover a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor (RTC or RTCc)?
  • What is my annual coverage amount and per-session limit?
  • Is a doctor’s referral required?

Please note that I do not offer direct billing at this time. If your plan includes coverage, you simply pay for your session upfront and submit your receipt for reimbursement.

Ready to begin your relational wellness journey?

Take the first step toward a relationship that feels supportive, connected, and aligned.